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Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 04:02

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Once they have a willing victim locked they move fast. After that they relax back into their usual self important, imperious, demanding self. The honeymoon phase lasts three months with these creatures.

They need a service provider! They need a cook, cleaner and sex object into which they can relieve themselves. Plus love bombing is a bit of a pain. It takes energy and constant self checking to keep up the nice guy front.

My advice: enjoy the three month ride then move along.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?